"Veil their faces to the presence..."

Let all mortal flesh keep silence

and with fear and trembling stand.

Ponder nothing earthly-minded,

for with blessing in His hand,

Christ our God to Earth, descended,

our full homage to demand.

King of kings, yet born of Mary,

as of old on Earth he stood,

Lord of lords, in human vesture,

in the body and the blood;

He will give to all the faithful

His own self for heavenly food.

Rank on rank the host of heaven

spreads its vanguard on the way,

as the Light of light descendeth

from the realms of endless day,

that the powers of hell may vanish

as the darkness clears away.

At His feet the six-winged seraph,

cherubim, with sleepless eye,

veil their faces to the presence,

as with ceaseless voice they cry:

Alleluia, Alleluia

Alleluia, Lord, most high.

-Liturgy of St. James

Inspired.

Yesterday morning I was awoken by my grandmother standing next to my bed, quietly trying to wake me up, yet also trying to not disturb my slumber. She always acts this way... forceful, yet subtle. A gentle soul, never wanting to encroach on me or my goings on. As an adjective to describe her, "selfless" does not even come close. 

8:00 AM at my house usually means very little. My mother is taking advantage of this time in her life. She has trouble sleeping as it is, so I don't normally expect her to be up. My younger sibling is a night owl, always being social, or the life of the party, usually both. I like to think that getting up early while home for the holidays is a good idea. In practice, however, it rarely happens. But Meme is always up by 7. Making coffee (for us), although most of the coffee the day before got poured out. Sugar, spoons, cups, and travel mugs all set out. Reading the paper, then leaving the Sports section on top when she's done, because she knows that's where I go first. Making sure the kitchen is spotless, even if she had already done so the night before. Every dish clean. Trying to be as quiet as possible, so as to not wake the rest of us late sleepers. She always apologizes for being loud, even though I never hear her. 

Meme woke me yesterday to tell me that her brother, my great uncle, needed some help, and would be there in an hour to pick me up. No details, but I always know what this means. Harold has been building brick mailboxes, along with doing other brick and stone work, around Birmingham for around 12 years (after retiring from working for the US Postal Service). He's old. I would guess around 86. He has no business doing what he does. He doesn't need the money. He's had a stroke and hurt himself multiple times the last couple of years. He's hard of hearing. He's a terrible driver. But yesterday he finished his 580th mailbox. He often needs help lifting large cement blocks that go on top of the mailboxes he usually builds. You've probably seen many around Birmingham. If my brother or I are home, he comes calling. He would do it by himself if he could, but it's just not possible. Yesterday was no different. We lifted two huge cement blocks onto the top of his newest creation. Even with a third person's help, it was tougher than its ever been. He's not getting any younger. And I'm not the strongest guy around. But we got it done. Just like always. 580 mailboxes completed, and I guarantee you as long as he is alive he won't quit. 

What an inspiration these two older relatives are. And how lazy they make me feel! 86 and 80 years old, still work regular jobs. When Meme isn't working, she's always DOING something. Always. She stays up late. She gets up early. Cooking, cleaning, reading, working in the yard, visiting her widowed friends in nursing homes who have little family. She rarely relaxes. She never stops. Harold works outside, whether in the 100 degree heat or the 25 degree winters, 6 days a week. He still collects aluminum cans to take and exchange for money. Money he doesn't need. He pays me $20 every time I help him, which is ridiculous for the amount of work I do (although I might deserve that much for daring to ride in his truck with him!). In other words, he's giving. He's selfless.

Two extremely hard working, extremely selfless individuals. Both of whom probably have no business doing the things they do. But they're Nalls. There are a total of 7 kids. They're all this way. Hard-working. Selfless. Inspiring. My mom and I often joke that the Nalls are going to live forever, because despite almost all of their spouses having died (sometimes more than one spouse), they have all lived. And besides one who's in a nursing home, they are all active and busy. Compared to them, my sleeping until 10:00 AM and sitting around the house watching sports all day during my "break" from school is embarrassing. It's obvious that God put them in my life to give me something to work towards. To aspire to. I'm constantly being inspired to aspire. 

Best of 2008 in Music, Part 2

Albums I never thought I’d say I like:

Nine Inch Nails: The Slip

-Maybe I just never even heard them to give them a chance, but this album was nothing like I imagined it would be. I enjoyed it a good bit.

Kanye West: 808s and Heartbreak 

-He's the most self-absorbed person in show business, in my opinion. And I don't know what I think about his new affinity for using Auto-Tune when he sings, because on SNL last week he was out of tune a LOT. Despite all of that, this is pretty cool stuff. 

Albums that I probably would have liked more had I had more time with them:

The Airborne Toxic Event: (Self-titled)

MGMT: Oracular Spectacular (Bobby Parker loves this)

Black Kids: Partie Traumatic

Deerhunter: Microcastle

Delta Spirit: Ode to Sunshine (Can’t stop listening to this…probably would have been top 10)

The Gaslight Anthem: The ’59 Sound

Good Old War: Only Way to Be Alone (Same as Delta Spirit)

Newton Faulkner: Hand Built By Robots

The Hold Steady: Stay Positive

I’m From Barcelona: Who Killed Harry Houdini?

Jose Gonzalez: In Our Nature

LCD Soundsystem: Sound of Silver

Nada Surf: Lucky

Katie Herzig: Apple Tree

The Killers: Day & Age (This one might be too big/much for its own good.)

William Fitzsimmons: The Sparrow and the Crow

No Age: Nouns

Working for a Nuclear City: Businessmen and Ghosts

And now, my top 30 favorite albums of 2008 (Keep in mind, there are probably plenty that I haven't even heard. That's why I use the word "favorite" instead of "best". Who am I to say what is best?)

30) She and Him: Volume 1

            -This had to be on the list because of my new affinity for Zooey Deschanel (one half of this duo with popular guitarist M. Ward). I’m developing quite the crush. I need to see Yes Man.

29) Kathleen Edwards: Asking For Flowers

            -Saw her perform at Workplay last spring, and really liked her sound. Good little album from the Canadian singer/songwriter.

28) The Whigs: Mission Control

            -Good ol’ Athens, Georgia rock and roll. 

27) Sandra McCracken: Red Balloon

            -Not as good as her last one, Gravity/Love, but nonetheless a good one. I love hearing Derek Webb doing background duties, and her version of The High Countries, a song she wrote about the CS Lewis book The Great Divorce that Caedmon’s Call originally recorded, is really moving.

26) Jon McLaughlin: OK Now

            -This one is almost a disappointment for me, but I think I just expected too much. And after seeing him perform live twice, no amount of disappointing albums could convince me that this man doesn’t have something special. 

25) Ryan Adams: Cardinology

            -Probably couldn’t put out a bad one if he tried. 

24) My Morning Jacket: Evil Urges

            -Weird stuff, but good stuff. One of America’s best young bands.

23) Gnarls Barkley: The Odd Couple

            -Danger Mouse is a genius.

22) Dave Barnes: Me and You and the World

            -I thought this one was going to be disappointing for the first few months after its release. But now I think I get it, and for it being only his first album on a label, he’s got a long career ahead of him. Probably has a career in comedy as well. Best of all, John Mayer likes him. 

21) Panic at the Disco: Pretty. Odd.

            -I shouldn’t like this band. But this album is just plain fun. Lush arrangements and fun punk harmonies.

20) Death Cab for Cutie: Narrow Stairs

            -Another band everyone loves to either love or hate. Little bit of a rockier edge to this one, but I enjoyed it much.

19) The Black Keys: Attack and Release

            -Bluesy rock. Produced by Danger Mouse. They have a very "throwback" sound to them. Gotta love it.

18) Kings of Leon: Only By the Night

            -Not as reckless as their older stuff, but this is still a great album. Sex on Fire is one of the best songs of the year.

17) Ray Lamontagne: Gossip in the Grain

            -Another solid release from the man with my favorite voice in all of music. I like to see that he’s developing his sound and trying different things.

16) Gabe Dixon Band: (self-titled)

            -Likeable piano pop. Gabe can play the crap out of the piano and has a deceptively powerful voice.

15) Fleet Foxes: (self-titled)

            -3-part folk harmonies that sound like they were recorded in a racquetball court. Never heard anything quite like this.

Favorite songs: White Winter Hymnal, Ragged Wood

14) TV on the Radio: Dear Science

            -One of the hardest bands out there for me to understand, but I still like this album a lot. Don’t even know how to describe it.

Favorite songs: Halfway Home, Golden Age

13) Mates of State: Rearrange Us

            -New to this husband and wife piano-based duo. Fun harmonies. Fun music.

Favorite songs: The Re-Arranger, Get Better

12) Sigur Ros: Med Sud I Eyrum Vid Spilum Endalaus         

   -Icelandic jibberish lyrics. Lush arrangements. This one is definitely a step in a different direction. There’s even a song in English!

Favorite songs: Ara Batur, Festival

11) Act of Congress: Declaration

            -More Birmingham goodness. Bluegrass meets pop. A poor man’s Nickel Creek.

Favorite songs: The Nature of Things, The Well

10) John Mayer: Where the Light Is

            -John Mayer doing what John Mayer does best. Playing the heck out of a guitar. I love that this concert featured all three facets of John’s “game”: an acoustic set, a set with the John Mayer Trio (which showcases his blues chops), and a full-band set. I will say that I’m a little sick of hearing about JM’s take on the Tom Petty classic Free Fallin’. It's good, but the people most obsessed with it have probably never even listened to another Tom Petty song in their life. 

Favorite song: In Your Atmosphere

9) Punch Brothers: Punch

            -This is Chris Thile’s (of Nickel Creek fame) band. The are pushing the envelope of bluegrass. The highlight and main focus of this album is the 42-minute, four movement chamber suite for bluegrass instruments called “The Blind Leaving the Blind”. I’ve never heard anything like it, that’s for sure.

Favorite song that’s not part of “TBLTB”: I Know You Know (actually, it’s a bonus track, but it’s excellent)

8) Ari Hest: 52

            -This one isn’t really an “album”. After leaving his record label, Ari decided to put out a song every week in 2008, and dubbed the project 52. Most of these songs are recorded on his own laptop, in his apartment or on the road somewhere in a hotel. Often times he will send the songs to his friends to add electric guitars, drums, bass, and others instruments, but many of them have just been Ari and a guitar. I think out of 50 songs so far, there has only been one that I didn’t even appreciate. I’d say 45 out of 50 have been really good songs, which is quite an accomplishment. He plans to take a fan vote of the best ones and release an album of the most popular 12 re-mastered tracks.

My favorites: Sky Blue, Erica, What Story I Am On, Making the Move, Never Look Back

7) Coldplay: Viva la Vida or Death and All His Friends

            -I know a lot of people want to hate Coldplay, and others want to hate this newest album because it’s a lot different. But for me it’s a HUGE step in a great new direction. It’s hard to ignore that this is a great album.

Best songs: Lovers in Japan, Violet Hill, Death and All His Friends

6) Wild Sweet Orange: We Have Cause to be Uneasy

            -The Birmingham-based band who I never wanted to give a chance has knocked me off my feet with their debut major-label album. So much EMOTION on this one. I think the lead singer, Preston Lovinggood, went to Hoover High, too. Maybe we’ll finally have a famous alum who isn’t a fledgling athlete or former MTV star wannabe.

Best songs: Ten Dead Dogs, Tilt, Aretha’s Gold

5) Andrew Peterson: Resurrection Letters, Volume 2

            -Again, I’ve dedicated a long post to this album in particular. Again I will say, Andrew Peterson is a poet in a musician’s body. Love this album, love his other albums.

Favorite song: Don’t Give Up On Me

4) Matthew Perryman Jones: Swallow the Sea

            -MPJ’s first album, Throwing Punches in the Dark, is probably my favorite album of the last 3 years, so I had high hopes for this one. It fortunately didn’t really disappoint. The songs are bigger in their production, but there’s still something about MPJ’s voice and songwriting that gets me. There are some artists that just seem to have an “it” that draws me in, and he has that. I long for more people to hear his music, because everyone I’ve introduced him to loves it.

Favorite song: Feels Like Letting Go

Song to get acclimated: Save You

3) Frightened Rabbit: The Midnight Organ Flight

            -Frightened Rabbit is a Scottish indie rock band that I was introduced to earlier this year, soon after this album came out. I was drawn in by their song My Backwards Walk and its repetitive ending line, “You’re the sh*t and I’m knee deep in it”. Vulgar? Maybe so. But catchy? Unfortunately yes. And just wait until you hear Keep Yourself Warm. That line has nothing on some of the subject matter in that song. But still, I love it. The best word I can think of to describe this band is “reckless”. And the lead singer’s voice is just so damn cool. I bet their live show is outstanding.

Favorite song: Good Arms vs. Bad Arms

Song to get acclimated: Old Old Fashioned

2) Ben Shive: The Ill-Tempered Klavier

            -I’ve already had a lengthy post about this one, but after hearing Ben perform one of these songs live the other night, it reminded me of just how much I love this album. He was already one of my favorite producers and session musicians, having worked with Dave Barnes, Matt Wertz, Andrew Peterson, Jill Phillips, Derek Webb, and others, but now he can be called one of my favorite singer-songwriters. The piano-based songs are catchy and fun, but with much underlying sentimentality. New favorite part of the CD: the bass line on Out of Tune.

Favorite song: She Is the Rising Sun

Best song to get acclimated: Out of Tune

1) Bon Iver: For Emma, Forever Ago

            -What can I say about this album that hasn’t already been said? Justin Vernon, under the moniker of Bon Iver (a purposeful misspelling of the French for “good winter”) has created a masterpiece, and he did it cooped up in a cabin. This is not your mom’s “guy and a guitar” folk album though. The two months Vernon spent clearing his head in the Wisconsin wilderness produced this nine-song beauty that features him singing in a weird falsetto, turning himself into a lush choir on many tracks, and playing seemingly random percussion craziness on a few songs. But somehow he’s managed to make something that has caught my attention and hasn’t let it go since May. Most of the songs on the album are sad, but all of them are poignant in their own way. Metaphors that I don’t always understand. Stories that don’t seem like they could have really happened, yet for some reason I believe that they did. I have a fear that this could be a one-hit wonder type of act, but he nailed this one. May not be for everyone, but it got me.

Favorite song: re:stacks

Best song to get acclimated: Skinny Love

So, there are mine. What are yours? What did I miss out on this year? And feel free to tell me if you hate any of those albums that I liked. And definitely check them all out if you're looking for something new or are just curious. I know I tend to have musical taste that is pretty schizophrenic, but most of all, I appreciate someone who is obviously talented and is obviously MUSICAL. 

2008 Music Lists, Part 1

So this is going to be a big one, in terms of length. I figure that's OK because I only post once a week anyway. And I want to get it out of the way in one post for all of you who don't care about what music I listen to, that way I don't stretch it out into 4 or 5 posts and lose more of that huge readership I carry. So, without further ado, I give you my music picks (and misses) of the year 2008. It's been a pretty good year for music. Maybe not quite as good as last year in some ways, but also better in others. 

(EDIT: After careful consideration, I've decided to do this in two parts. Sorry music haters.)

First, the best Albums that weren’t from ’08, but that I discovered some time this year:

Fernando Ortega: The Shadow of Your Wings

Andrew Bird: Armchair Apochrypa

The Avett Brothers: Emotionalism

Brooke Fraser: Albertine

Dario Marianelli: Atonement Soundtrack (Check out this movie too...one of my favorites)

Glen Hansard and Marketa Irglova: The Swell Season

Jars of Clay: Good Monsters (after a few bad albums, they're BACK)

Matt Nathanson: Some Mad Hope

Manchester Orchestra: I'm Like a Virgin Losing a Child

Menomena: Friend and Foe

Over the Rhine: Drunkard's Prayer

Patrick Watson: Close to Paradise

Spoon: Ga Ga Ga Ga Ga

The Weepies: Say I Am You

Travis: The Boy With No Name

My Favorite EPs:

Matt Pond PA: The Freeep

            -I think they’ve been having some personnel troubles, so I wasn’t expecting any new stuff for a while. But then they all of a sudden put this free EP on their website, and it’s really good stuff. Thanks to Austin for turning me on to what has become one of my very favorite bands.

Jon Foreman: Winter, Spring, Summer, Fall

            -I know some of these were actually released in ’07, but I like to think of them as a 2008 project. Great acoustic songs from the lead singer of Switchfoot. Also, Jon is releasing an album with Sean Watkins from Nickel Creek (as Fiction Family) in January, and I’m REALLY looking forward to that one.

Derek and Sandra: Ampersand

            -My favorite musical married couple (besides my own brother and his wife) released a little EP of duets this year that is really great.

Andrew Osenga: Letters to the Editor, Vol. 2

            -Rules were: one electric guitar per song, no personnel but Andy (except his wife on Canada), and the song ideas came from fans. I liked Volume 1 better, but this one is still great.

Coldplay: Prospekt’s March

            -Wasn’t expecting much out of this one, but it turned out to be really really really really really good. The previously unreleased songs probably wouldn’t have fit on Viva la Vida (the album whose sessions they came from), but they are still excellent songs and I’m glad Coldplay released them. 

Biggest Disappointments:

Ben Folds: Way to Normal

-Nothing about this album did anything for me. Such a huge failure after the beauty of Songs for Silverman.

Bebo Norman: (Self-titled)

-This one just doesn't work for me. It's an attempt at being too commercial, and is such a huge departure from the Bebo that I grew up loving that I can't get into it at all. It seems like he's going to be doing this sort of thing for the rest of his career, so I guess I ought to just get used to it, because he'll always be one of my favorites ever.

Brooke Waggoner: Heal for the Honey

-I liked this one at first, but it just never drew me in to where I wanted to listen to it more than just a couple of times. I think she's immensely talented, and it's not that I think this is a bad album. I just don't like it near as much as her original EP, Fresh Pair of Eyes.

The Dears: Missiles

-Again, I loved their last one, but I don't get this one yet. Maybe it will grow on me. 

Matt Wertz: Under Summer Sun

-Failure. It's his first major label release, and he basically re-released mostly old songs with little changes in production, and added 4 VERY average new ones. He's got nothing on Dave Barnes. 

Girl Talk: Feed the Animals

-Cool idea, probably fun in a live setting. But splicing rap songs and others popular songs isn't for me. Sorry Emily Stewart. 

Most overrated album:

Vampire Weekend: (Self-titled)

-This is one that all the cool kids seem to love, and is probably on everyone's top 10 list. But it doesn't do it for me at all. 

From a Distance

My final year at Auburn has been markedly different than the past three. This is true for many reasons, but one of the main ones is my decision to end my AU Singers career. This was not an easy decision last spring. I was nervous about what I would do with all of my time. I knew that, no matter how much I tried to keep up with those Singers friends, it wouldn't be easy and I probably wouldn't see much of them. But I knew that the decision was the right one. My heart wasn't in it. I hated rehearsal. I wasn't having fun. 

Throughout this semester, I have been building upon my Singers-less life slowly. First, it was the first Tuesday of class, when at 3:30 PM, I wasn't in Goodwin rehearsing. It was such a strange feeling, but it was great. Next, I attended rehearsal a few times as a mere spectator. Again, a weird feeling (and they sounded awesome that first day I went back), but I still knew I had made the right decision. Sounds of Auburn in November brought the first time I had seen them actually perform this year. I, honestly, was kind of underwhelmed, and still didn't regret my decision to not be in the group. But this past Sunday was the ultimate test. Fall Show. This is what the entire semester builds up to for an Auburn University Singer. This is big time, the culmination of three and a half months of work.

To be honest, my expectations were not very high. I knew it would be entertaining, but I didn't expect what I got. They were incredible. They sounded great. They looked great. The solos were great. The entire show was just really, really impressive. They exceeded my expectations by far. I enjoyed it so much that I went back Monday night, and it was even better. It is a really weird feeling being on the other side of it: not having gone through all the work, not being SO tired after 5 shows in 3 days, not having a week full of rehearsals the week before the show to go along with a full load of schoolwork. But, regardless of it all, I still don't regret it. My time was up. I got out at the right time. I am so proud of all of my friends who are still there. They did a wonderful job, moving me to fist pumps, tears, and huge smiles many times. They know that I'm their harshest critic, and they impressed that harsh critic, very much so. 

Behold the Lamb of God

I've been wanting to write this post for months, but I waited until it was more relevant. Today I am here to tell you about the very thing that changed Christmas for me. Before Christmas '07, I don't think I ever really "got it". It was just a time for stress, presents, and food. Sometime in the middle of '07, I purchased a copy of Andrew Peterson's album Behold the Lamb of God. I had always been a big AP fan, and knew that this CD existed, but for some reason had always shied away from it. I never thought I would like it for some reason. The song titles were weird. It was a Christmas album. I never thought Christmas could be cool. But I have never been more wrong. Not only do I have a huge appreciation for Christmas music now, but this album turned out to easily be the best Christmas album I own, and probably in my top 5 albums I've ever heard. 

BTLOG is more than your average Christmas album, however. And it's also not your run-of-the-mill Andrew Peterson album. This is a collaborative effort, on so many levels. It features many artists who are among my favorites (and also many other musicians who I love), including Derek Webb, Jill Phillips, Andy Gullahorn, Ben Shive, Andrew Osenga, Sandra McCracken, Fernando Ortega, Ron Block (from Union Station), Randall Goodgame, Laura Story (she wrote "Indescribable"), Gabe Scott, and others. 

The album takes a path through the Christmas story, albeit a strange path. But only strange in its completeness. The first 4 or 5 songs focus on Old Testament stories, setting the scene for the coming of our Savior as the people long for Him. The rest of the songs deal with His birth. Unmistakably Biblical words fill these songs. As usual, Andrew Peterson has it together lyrically. There are way too many passages to even quote one, but the highlights for me are the final declaration in "So Long, Moses" and basically all of the remarkably beautiful "Labour of Love". The liner notes have references to the actual verses/passages, so if you decide to get this, try to get the actual CD. 

Musically, it's excellent as well. Lots of variety, a couple of instrumentals ("O Come, O Come, Emmanuel" might the only recognizable song on the album), and many, many beautiful and memorable moments. Ben Shive's string arrangements are killer, as always. 

I can sit and talk about this album all day, because it means that much to me. I don't think I really had a very good grasp on the Christmas season and what it means to me as a Believer until I heard and really digested this album. It was the impulse of a change in me last year that has carried over to this year, and hopefully will continue until I leave this world. We ought not take for granted how important this Advent season is. 

Like I said, I can't recommend BTLOG enough. Please, please, please, please find a way to get this album. I can almost guarantee that it will change Christmas for you. I know that it has for me, and others in my life. If you do get it, let me know. It really means a lot to me, and it will mean a lot more to me to know that it had an impact on someone else.

Lastly, as an awesome bonus, Andrew Peterson and Friends tour this album every Christmas, and will be in Birmingham on December 15th performing at Oak Mountain Presbyterian. They'll also be in Huntsville the night before, and in Nashville at the Ryman on the 18th (if none of those three work for you, check here for the rest of the dates). I saw it last year and it was incredible, obviously. At these concerts, they go through in an "in-the-round" style and each play a couple of their own songs, then take a break, and play BTLOG from beginning to end without stopping. Peterson feels that this is how it is supposed to be heard, and I totally agree. It fits together perfectly. It needs all of the parts. If you can, try to make it to one of these concerts. I'll be attending the one in Birmingham, and probably the Nashville one as well. You're welcome to sit with me. You WILL NOT be disappointed. 

"From you, O Bethlehem, Small among Judah,

a Ruler will come, Ancient and Strong".

-So Long, Moses (from BTLOG)

sharing.

this weekend, while at home, i got to go to oak mountain presbyterian church. i may have talked here before about how much i enjoy this church (i feel certain that i have). i took my new birmingham buddy chase along with me to the 10:45 service, expecting to worship through song and a scripture-based, thought-provoking, extremely challenging message from bob flayhart. i got wonderful music, but instead of bob's message, the plans for the service were a little bit different. bob announced that today there would be a time of sharing. a time to give an encouraging word to the body of believers. a time to share joys and struggles with a room full of people who are just as broken and just as pitiful and just as sinful as the next person. it was something i didn't and wouldn't expect in a church so large. but it was really beautiful. i heard the story of a woman struggling with breast cancer. a man shared how his ten month old daughter, who is 100% deaf, is going to receive cochlear implants, after it looked for a while like this wouldn't get to happen because of an insurance mix-up. i heard of a marriage that had ended in divorce after the husband had gotten caught up in some bad stuff, only to have the Lord bring them back together again to re-marry. these stories of real, broken, struggling people are such an encouragement. on one hand, it makes me appreciate how good i have it... that i don't have some terminal illness or a daughter with an ailment she could be stricken with for the rest of her life. but on the other hand, it shows me that, when i struggle with things and feel really alone in that sadness and struggle, i'm not alone. everyone has demons. and we need others at these times of trial. we are necessarily called into community as followers of Christ. it's so easy to forget that. we NEED each other. desperately. 

bob made the comment many times during the time of sharing that "our church is a safe place". while i don't necessarily have a "church" home, my friends are my church. these believers are my safe place. how frequently i forget this.